In another post on someone else's journal, [personal profile] mac posted this link: The Revolution Starts at Home: Confronting Intimate Violence Within Activist Communities. It mentions a book that I currently can't afford to order, but also has a link to an excellent PDF of the zine version.

It is an intense read, but very valuable, IMO. So far I'm only a third of the way through it. One takeaway I have is something I knew at a gut level, but didn't really follow all the way through: Just because a person is an activist doesn't mean they automatically are not capable of being an abuser.

I know, peripherally, of incidents in various subcultures/communities I'm involved in that are not pretty. What I hadn't really internalized is how much it happens, but is ignored *within the community*. Sure, the outside will take a hint and make it a federal case, but ignoring it within isn't the solution either.

BTW, for those who wonder why I am bothering with any of this, since it's not my fight? Because I can. Because if someone hates me because of what I say on the net, it wouldn't be the first time. Because I have this obnoxious tendency to ask "Oh, really?" and be a bit sparing with my trust and credence. Not everyone whose journal I follow do I like or trust, either.

I'm sorry if I don't conform to your idea of what a pagan/feminist/queer/gimp/fan should be like. I'm not trying to please you or conform, and pushing me to do so just gets my back up and me being contrary. Call it crazy if you like.

But if I can inspire someone to think past their knee-jerk, then it's worth it.

That's why I've chosen to highlight this link/document - because it has made *me* think.
ravan: by Ravan (ooh pickme - by shantidove)
( Jun. 6th, 2006 06:42 pm)
So, we moved in to this nice mixed neighborhood in San Jose, just south of Japantown. Well, it lacks one thing: other fans! Please, give me some fannish neighbors!

The apartment complex next door has a two bedroom apartment up for rent. While the people in there are not the quietest people on earth by a long shot, the people in the victorian next door are. I don't know how much they want for rent, but it can't be too much - it has no pool or other frippery. If you like trains it's a plus!

The coolest thing is that this location is about halfway between the DoubleTree Hotel and the San Jose Convention Center. It's only a 5 block walk (short blocks at that) to the Japantown light rail station, and there is sushi within walking distance too.

Are you interested? Call (408) 294-3210 - they have a message machine, so leave a message.


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