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Well fuck.
The first type of chemo failed, and put my wife in the hospital for a week in May.
We have now gone through two second opinions, and none of them will pull the thing out - "it's too risky" - the tumor is wrapped around the nerve root. Plus the next chemo is even more toxic.
They tell us that her time remaining is measured in months, not years. At this point she can't even really travel.
I hate cancer, and I hate Kaiser for slow walking this whole fucking thing.
And my heart is breaking.
The first type of chemo failed, and put my wife in the hospital for a week in May.
We have now gone through two second opinions, and none of them will pull the thing out - "it's too risky" - the tumor is wrapped around the nerve root. Plus the next chemo is even more toxic.
They tell us that her time remaining is measured in months, not years. At this point she can't even really travel.
I hate cancer, and I hate Kaiser for slow walking this whole fucking thing.
And my heart is breaking.
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I'm so sorry to hear it. Sending good thoughts her way.
Fuck cancer.
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I am so very sorry to hear this. I wish I could say something more appropriate. I simply have no words. Know that I care, eh? Because I do.
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DAMN! I cant fix this.
I can give you both hugs, and I can give you a shoulder to cry on.
Sadly, this is a rather paltry offering, considering the stakes here.
You two are nice people and this should not be happening to you.
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Love,
Patrick