Irony

I find it ironic that the people who are the biggest flakes, the ones who spend most of their time bameing everyone and everything else for their own inability to do what they say they'll do and live up to their commitment are the first to tell others to "Get off the cross" and lecture them about "change", as if the accusation of someone "playing victim" absolves them of responsibility for their own flakiness. Making adult noises doesn't make you an adult, living up to adult responsibilities does.

When people for years know that they have to plan on you flaking out at the last minute, regardless of your protestations to the contrary, it's pretty bad. When you can't make a simple deadline that is well known, is the same every year, and that you committed to in writing, you have no room to complain when people laugh when you make similar "commitments". So if you want to be taken seriously, don't make commitments that you can't, or won't, keep, and don't get pissed off when people recall your abysmal record on the subject over the last 5 years.

Just sayin'. You know who you are. If you want to take it to a war, I can play dirty. I have got a lot of time on my hands these days, and nothing I am ashamed of. You pissed off my SO, you have pissed on my friends, and you are ruining something I've put time and cash into without expecting any professional benefit from (unlike you.)