Well, apparently because I'm a member of 
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childfree, and because I was annoyed, yet amused, by someone who decided to wank and whine on them, a friend has decided to remove me from their reading list.  
This actually upsets me.
Why?  It's not like I post all kinds of CF stuff here.  I don't understand.  Because I oppose stereotyping all childfree as bigotted assholes (even though some truly are)?  Because I am offended by drama wanks and such who spew those stereotypes at me?  Because I don't like chickenshits in any community (as opposed to personal journal) who like to dish it out but can't take it, and I like an occasional flambe session??  Because I'm a member of (at least one) community that has some very immature members?  Or because I sometimes write about political and work stuff from a CF perspective?
OK, some of the angry epithets used by the hardcore childfree types are downright nasty.  I don't use them, and just tend to roll my eyes when I read them.  Which ones are the nastiest is a matter of personal opinion.  But I don't tend to use them here.  Why?  It's a slang used in a certain subculture, and just plain not appropriate for general use.  The same applies to other slang used in other subcultures - pagan, fannish, etc.  That and some are just... stupid, crude, or unfunny.
Yes, I'm childfree.  I disapprove of bratty kids, and their negligent caretakers.  I am horrified by child abuse and neglect.  I also love my neice and nephews, and enjoy seeing kids that are well raised.  I understand that no kid is an angel all the time - I sure wasn't.
If you don't like 
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childfree, or 
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cf_hardcore, don't read them, please, it will only piss you off.  I don't read right wing conservative (e.g. 
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conservatism2)or pro-bush (e.g. 
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community4bush) communities for the same reason.